For the first time in a while, I finally got back in front of the camera and made a new video for my YouTube Channel, Dave’s Orchid Oasis. This one discusses why orchids refuse to bloom. Somewhere along the way, the channel quietly crept up to 9,850 subscribers, which I didn’t think much of until the kids informed me that this apparently qualifies as "a big deal."
They’ve been showing it to their friends, and I’ve now reached minor celebrity status among a group of ninth graders. I'm not sure if they find the content all that gripping, though.
We basically live at a zoo these days. Between four cats and two dogs, there’s always something needing attention, cleaning, or rescuing. The dogs seem to make it their mission to find and roll in the most disgusting things possible, while the cats are constantly plotting their next escape. Out of all of them, the only one who truly acts like I’m the center of their world is Stinky. He follows me around nonstop and couldn’t be happier about it. Why do certain animals choose certain people to bond with?
Lucy and Charlie Brown were a recently retired couple excited to start a new chapter. They had big plans.
Over the next few years, they checked off most of the items on their bucket list, trips to Prague, Japan, New Zealand, and Alaska, and even an African safari where Lucy hunted and killed a wildebeest. They fixed up their house just the way they wanted: new windows, a resurfaced lanai, a new kitchen, and a backyard workshop where Charlie could put his woodworking skills to good use.
As the list got shorter, they found themselves in their early 70s with more income than they'd expected. After working through their retirement plan, they understood that dying with a pile of money didn't make much sense. With $800,000 in their IRAs, they could comfortably spend $3,300 a month without touching the principal itself.
"I can't believe this," Lucy marveled. "We always worried about running out of money. Between Social Security and our investment income, now we're running out of things to spend it on."
That evening, they went to a nice restaurant for dinner. Lucy ordered a glass of wine that wasn't even on the happy hour menu. At the table next to them sat a group of six teachers; the school year had just started.
"That's a hard job," Lucy said. "Teachers don't get nearly the recognition they deserve. A new teacher earns $45,000 a year. Did you know that?"
"I'm going to pay for their meal," she announced. Charlie nearly fell out of the booth.
They paid anonymously. The teachers were stunned. Something about knowing a stranger had done that, for no reason at all, stayed with them through the difficult months ahead.
"That felt great," Lucy said on the way home. The taste of generosity was better than anything on the menu.
A few days later, they were having breakfast at a small diner. Their bill came to $27. Lucy thought about the waitress, the early mornings, the sore feet, the thankless stretches. She left a $20 tip and a note: You are doing great. We appreciate you. The waitress read it, felt something warm in her chest, and had a better day.
Lucy was hooked. She began to realize that, instead of letting that $3,300 pile up every month, they would be outrageously generous.
A couple of months later, Charlie's niece went through a difficult divorce, four kids, a deadbeat dad, and starting over from scratch. Lucy didn't hesitate. "Let's give her $10,000. That's three months of investment income. It'll get her back on her feet."
Charlie was all in. "I never thought giving would feel this good," he said.
A month after that, they read that hundreds of children right here in Sarasota didn't have a bed to sleep in. "In one of the wealthiest counties in the country," Lucy said quietly.
They partnered with a local church. Charlie built beds with his own hands; their money covered the materials. The kids got to sleep off the floor. Their parents got a reminder that they weren't alone.
By now, Chuck and Lucy were actively looking for ways to help. When they thought about how much pressure police officers carry, the danger, the criticism, the thanklessness, Charlie wanted to do something.
They bought small trophies, the kind you'd see at a high school awards banquet. Each one was engraved with the words "Biggest Hero in Sarasota, 2025." A lot of those trophies ended up on mantles.
One evening, Charlie got quiet.
"This has been wonderful," he said, "but we're giving away a lot of money. What if something happens? Maybe we should hold onto the extra and let it grow."
"Absolutely not," Lucy said. "I refuse to die with over a million dollars. Sure, the kids would get an inheritance. But this is our money. I want to decide what it's for."
"What about a nursing home? Those are expensive. I don't want one of us left with nothing," he said.
"Charlie, only about 7% of people end up needing paid long-term care for five years or more. The odds of a catastrophic, years-long nursing home stay are much lower than we imagine. Do we really want to live in fear of something that probably won't happen? And honestly, at 85, are we going to look back and wish we'd helped fewer people?"
Charlie was quiet for a moment. "I guess you're right. I think we're doing the right thing."
Chuck and Lucy lived into their eighties. Their kids and grandkids learned what generosity looks like in practice. Their funerals were celebrations of lives well lived.
And at the end of it all — after everything they'd given away — their IRAs were still worth $800,000. They had simply lived on the money it had made.
Be Blessed,
Dave
A note on the nursing home stat: According to the American Association for Long-Term Care Insurance, only about 7% of people over 65 will use paid long-term care services for five years or longer. That's a far cry from the catastrophic scenario most people fear.